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Waterfalls & Hiking at Lake Glenville, NC

Waterfalls & Hiking at Lake Glenville, NC

Let’s face it, 2020 has been a stressful year. Some friends and I decided we needed a break, so we rented a house on Lake Glenville for a long weekend. Lake Glenville is in Western North Carolina near Highlands and Cashiers. As with many mountain…

Spaghetti Carbonara for Two

Spaghetti Carbonara for Two

Today is National Pasta Day! I love pasta, so I thought I would post my Spaghetti Carbonara recipe. It is one of my go to recipes for three reasons: 1) it is easy to make, 2) it uses ingredients I usually have on hand, and…

Cape Cod Lobster & Steamers Dinner

Cape Cod Lobster & Steamers Dinner

The Clam Man, Falmouth, MA
The Clam Man, Falmouth, MA

My mom and I recently visited my aunt and uncle in Cape Cod. Whenever we visit them at the Cape, we absolutely HAVE to have to a traditional Cape Cod dinner of lobster and steamed clams (steamers). Everything in this meal cooks really fast, so we serve it in courses: 1) steamers, 2) salad, 3) lobster & corn on the cob. It is always delicious!

When you make this meal, make sure you get your lobster and clams from a reputable source. Your lobster should be alive and kicking when it goes in the pot. If you find yourself in Falmouth, MA, go to The Clam Man and they will take care of you.

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Cape Cod Lobster & Steamers Dinner

October 9, 2020
: Easy

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Ingredients
  • 3-4 lb clams
  • 1 to 2 sticks butter, divided
  • 4 ears of corn
  • 4 1.25 lb lobsters
  • Your favorite salad
Directions
  • Step 1 Soak the clams in cold water for at least an hour before you plan to cook them. Change the water at least once during the hour.
  • Step 2 Set the table. Each place setting should include a bib, a lobster cracker, and two small bowls per person – one for clam broth and one for melted butter. Also provide 1 or 2 large bowls on the table for people to discard their clam and lobster shells.
  • Step 3 Put water in the bottom section of the the steamer pot. Be sure to fill the water over the spout to make sure you can get the clam broth out easily. Turn on the heat. While the water comes to a boil, shuck the corn.
  • Step 4 Course 1. Steamers: Once the water is boiling, add the clams to the top section of the steamer and cover. Steam until the clams pop open – about 8-10 min. While the clams steam, melt a stick of butter and prepare your salad.
  • Step 5 When the steamers are ready, divide them evenly among 4 bowls to serve. If a clam didn’t open during the steaming it is bad and you should throw it out. Pour some of the clam broth into a small dish for each person. Pour melted butter into individual dishes as well. Put these at each person’s place at the table. When eating the steamers use the clam broth to rinse the clams to get rid of any remaining sand, then dip the clam in the melted butter and eat. Put the shells in the discard bowl.
  • Step 6 Course 2. Salad: Finish making the salad and serve.
  • Step 7 Course 3. Lobster & Corn: Bring the water in the steamer back to a boil. Add the lobsters first, then the corn on top. Cover and steam for about 10 min. When the lobsters are bright red, they are done. While they steam, make sure everyone has enough melted butter in their dish. If not, melt more and refill everyone’s butter dish. Note: Save at least 1/2 stick of butter to put on the table for people to use to butter their corn.
  • Step 8 Serve the lobster & corn.

 

Detailed Instructions

Soak steamers
Soak the steamers

Step 1. Soak the clams in cold water for at least an hour before you cook them. While the clams soak, they spit out the sand. You want as much sand as possible out before you cook them. (Who wants to eat sand?!) Change the water at least once while they soak. (Note: Some people say you should soak steamers in salt water, but my uncle’s family has always soaked them in tap water, so we went with his method.)

Set the table
Set the table

Step 2. Set the table. Each place setting will need a lobster cracker, a bib (cracking open lobsters is messy business), and two small bowls- one for clam broth and one for melted butter. Also provide 1 or 2 large bowls on the table for people to discard their clam and lobster shells.

Bring water to boil in steamer.
Bring water to boil

Step 3. Put water in the bottom section of the the steamer pot. Be sure to fill the water over the spout to make sure you can get the clam broth out easily. However, don’t fill it up all the way or it will boil over once you start cooking things. Turn on the heat. While the water comes to a boil, shuck the corn.

Course 1. Steamers

Steam the steamers
Steam the clams

Step 4. Once the water is boiling, add the clams to the top section of the steamer and cover. Steam until the clams pop open – about 8-10 min. While the clams steam, melt a stick of butter and prepare your salad.

Eat the clams
Serve the clams

Step 5. When the steamers are ready, divide them evenly among 4 bowls and serve. If any clams did not open during the steaming, throw them out. (If they didn’t open it means the clam was dead before you steamed it and it is bad.) Use the spout at the bottom of the steamer to pour some clam broth into a small dish for each person. Pour melted butter into individual dishes as well.  Put these at each person’s place at the table.   When eating the steamers use the clam broth to rinse the clams to get rid of any remaining sand, then dip the clam in the melted butter and eat. Put the shells in the discard bowl.

Course 2. Salad

Salad
Salad

Step 6. Finish making and serve the salad. Pictured here is a salad with spinach, baby kale, tomatoes, avocado and BQ’s Roquefort Dressing.

Course 3.: Lobster & corn on the cob

Steam lobster and corn
Steam lobster and corn

Step 7. Bring the water in the steamer back to a boil. Add the lobsters first, then the corn on top. Cover and steam for about 10 min. When the lobsters are bright red, they are done. While they steam, make sure everyone has enough melted butter in their dish. If not, melt more and refill everyone’s butter dish. Note: Save at least 1/2 stick of butter to put on the table for people to use to butter their corn.

Serve the lobster and corn
Serve the lobster and corn

Step 8. Serve the lobster & corn. In case you need it, here is a video on how to crack open a lobster.  Since everyone has their own melted butter dish double dipping is encouraged.

A Long Weekend in Asheville, NC

A Long Weekend in Asheville, NC

Since things are starting to open in up a bit, my friend Pete and I decide to head out of town for a long weekend in Asheville, NC. We somehow managed to time our trip for the first weekend they had fall weather. Between the…

Mom’s Tomato Sauce

Mom’s Tomato Sauce

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Lazy Betty – Atlanta, GA

Lazy Betty – Atlanta, GA

For various reasons, I’ve been erring on the side of caution with COVID19. To support my favorite local restaurants I’ve been getting takeout, but last week I was finally ready to eat out again. Well, at least eat out on a patio. Since it was my first dinner out in months I decided to go big and eat at Lazy Betty. During the COVID lockdown I got takeout from them several times and it was always amazing, so D and I went and got the 8-course tasting menu. It was amazing. I would try to describe it, but I wouldn’t do it justice, so I’ll let the pictures do the talking.

PS – Get the wine pairings, but only if you have a designated driver.

Lazy Betty
1530 Dekalb Ave. NE, Atlanta, Ga 30307
404-975-3692

Amuse
Amuse: Ricotta tart & duck cigar
Biscuit
Biscuit with cherry butter

Cucumber Cannelloni
Cucumber Cannelloni, Horseradish Panna Cotta, Borshct

Cauliflower 'Bone Marrow'
Cauliflower ‘Bone Marrow’, Vidalia Marmalade, Sourdough

Shrimp Causa
Shrimp Causa, Avocado Mousse, Aji-Potato Emulsion

Ravioli doppo
Ravioli Doppio, Roasted Fall Squash, Caramelized Sunchoke

Roasted Scallop
Roasted Scallop, Crusted Salsify, Buttermilk-Sake Veloute

Dry Aged Duck
Dry Aged Duck, Vadouvan Spiced Carrots, Burnt Onion Jus

Raspberry. Yuzu Ganache, Raspberry Hibiscus Sorbet
Raspberry. Yuzu Ganache, Raspberry Hibiscus Sorbet

Petit Fours
Petit Fours

Blueberry Coffee Cake

Blueberry Coffee Cake

An important rule of travel is: when you invite yourself to visit someone, don’t show up empty handed. That is why when I went to visit my aunt and uncle in North Carolina, I brought this blueberry coffee cake. It is versatile – it can…

Thai-style Tortellini in Brodo

Thai-style Tortellini in Brodo

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BQ’s Roquefort Vinaigrette Salad Dressing

BQ’s Roquefort Vinaigrette Salad Dressing

My friend, Ed, has been asking me to post this recipe since I started this blog. It is my grandmother’s Roquefort salad dressing recipe. She always kept a jar of this in the fridge and a salad with Roquefort dressing was on the table every Sunday dinner.

This is not your typical blue cheese dressing. It is a blue cheese vinaigrette. The vinegar and Worcestershire balance out the blue cheese so that even people who are not huge blue cheese fans (like me) will still be crazy about this salad dressing.

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BQ's Roquefort Vinaigrette Salad Dressing

August 29, 2020
: Makes 2+ cups of salad dressing
: Easy

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Ingredients
  • 4 oz. Roquefort or similar blue cheese (crumbled is easier)
  • ½ c. white vinegar
  • 1 c. Canola or vegetable oil
  • 2 t. salt
  • 1 heaping t. cracked black pepper
  • 4 t. Worcestershire sauce
Directions
  • Step 1 Mash together crumbled blue cheese and vinegar with a fork.
  • Step 2 Mix together oil, salt, pepper, & Worcestershire sauce.
  • Step 3 Combine blue cheese mixture in with oil mixture. Mix well – either whisk together or put in a jar and shake vigorously.
  • Step 4 Store in refrigerator. Shake up or re-whisk before serving.

Variations

BQ always served this with a simple green salad (preferably with lettuce fresh from the garden). Some of my favorite variations are pictured below.

Steak & tomato
Steak & tomato
Salad with apples & walnuts
Apples, cranberries & walnuts

Serve
Tomato & pistachio

Roquefort salad with bacon & tomato
Bacon & Tomato

Detailed Instructions

Mash cheese and vinegar
Mash cheese and vinegar

Mash together crumbled blue cheese in vinegar with a fork. There shouldn’t be any big chunks, but small chunks are fine. The original recipe called for Roquefort, but you can use any blue cheese. Using pre-crumbled saves a little time.

Mix oil & remaining ingredients
Mix oil & remaining ingredients

In a separate bowl or jar, mix together oil, salt, pepper, & Worcestershire sauce.  A 2-cup (1 pint) glass jar just fits.
Note: I use table salt for this dressing. If you use kosher salt, you may need to adjust the amount.

Shake to combine
Shake to combine

Combine blue cheese mixture in with oil mixture. Mix well – either whisk them together in a bowl or put them in a jar and shake it vigorously.

Serve
Serve

Store in refrigerator. Shake well or re-whisk before serving. The blue cheese tends to sink to the bottom of the jar, so sometimes I use a spoon or small gravy ladle to make sure I get the good stuff from the bottom of the jar.

Pisgah National Forest, NC

Pisgah National Forest, NC

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Cherry Tomato & Goat Cheese Pasta

Cherry Tomato & Goat Cheese Pasta

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Croatia – Dubrovnik & the Surrounding Area

Croatia – Dubrovnik & the Surrounding Area

All week I’ve been dreaming of taking another trip to Croatia. It all started because I’m trying to recreate this amazing fish that we ate on that trip, so I started looking back through the pictures. The usual suspects and I went to Croatia a few years ago to celebrate Neal & Wendi’s anniversary. If Croatia isn’t on your list of places to visit once the pandemic travel restrictions are lifted, it should be.

Zaton, Croatia
Zaton, Croatia
Croatia is a wonderful country. The people were nice, the food was good and the old city in Dubrovnik, a UNESCO World Heritage Site, is just breath taking. But what really blew me away was the water. The Adriatic Sea was so clear, so blue, and so refreshing.

We rented a house in Zaton a short drive (or boat ride) from Dubrovnik. It is a cute little beach village and our house was walking distance down to the beach, boats & restaurants. It was a great home base since it had easy access to Dubrovnik but also provided a jumping off point to explore the Pelješac peninsula.

I hope to go back soon. Next time I want to hop on a boat and sail from one end of Croatia to the other. If you are planning a trip to Croatia, below are some of my favorite activities from our trip. I hope they inspire you to go!
 

Croatia Boat Trip Pegasus
Swim break on the boat trip (Photo by Chinda B.)
Boat trip to explore the coast & islands I love a day on the water, but this was one of my favorite boat trips of all times. Our crew took us to an island to explore and have some beach time while they cooked us the most amazing fish for lunch. Then they took us to another little cove for more swimming, jet skiing, and exploring the shallows along the coast. Maybe it was the Pegasus float, but it was just a magical day.
Buza Bar, Dubrovnik
Buza II Bar, Dubrovnik (Photo by Rae C.)
Have a drink & a swim at Buza II, Dubrovnik. This bar is in the old city in Dubrovnik. It is a great place to cool off after you walk the city walls. It actually hangs on the cliff outside the walls. There is a small sign that says ‘Cold drinks with the most beautiful view’ that points you toward the door. If aren’t paying attention, you will walk right past it. In addition to an amazing view it has cold drinks and large rocks to jump off of into the Adriatic Sea.
Sign to Buza II
Sign to Buza II
View from Mt Srđ
View from Mt Srđ
Go to the top of Mt Srđ. Visit the top Mount Srđ for some of the best views of Dubrovnik. In a cab ride from Dubrovnik one night our driver told us about the role Mount Srđ and the fortress there played in defending Dubrovnik during the war in the 1990s. (It was mind-boggling to think of such a beautiful place being at war.)
The Wall at Ston, Croatia
The Wall at Ston, Croatia
Walk the Wall at Ston. If you like to hike, walking the wall at Ston is an adventure. It is like a mini-Great Wall, but with gorgeous views of the water. it is on the Pelješac peninsula about an hour from Dubrovnik. We walked the whole wall from Ston to Mali Ston. After the hour+ hike we had a lovely lunch at a cafe in Mali Ston. (We were starving after the long trek!) Be warned – as with the city walls in Dubrovnik, this wall is hot and there is no shade, so go early in the day and take plenty of water.
Blueberry Lemon Pound Cake

Blueberry Lemon Pound Cake

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Roasted Cherry Tomato & Shallot Ravioli

Roasted Cherry Tomato & Shallot Ravioli

I always plant cherry tomatoes in my garden. A few plants can produce LOTS of cherry tomatoes. As a result, I have some great cherry tomato recipes. This roasted tomato ravioli is one of my favorites. It is quick, easy, and delicious. Pair it with…

Butter & Cream: I ♥ their ice cream sandwiches

Butter & Cream: I ♥ their ice cream sandwiches

Every time my mom comes to visit, we have to get ice cream from Butter & Cream. It is a local ice cream shop in Decatur, GA that makes small batch ice cream that is SO yummy. They recently opened a second location on the Atlanta Beltline, too.
Ice cream sandwich cake
Ice cream sandwich cake

That being said, don’t let the ice cream focus fool you. The people at Butter & Cream are also top notch bakers. Yes, you can buy cakes and cookies.  And, yes, they put their baked goods in some of their ice cream (like Butterscotch Brownie).  But, for me, nirvana is when they combine ice cream and cookies in their amazing ice cream sandwiches. The Salted Caramel ice cream + Brown Sugar Almond Cookie ice cream sandwich is what always keeps me coming back. One year for my birthday I got dozen of their ice cream sandwiches (assorted flavors) and stacked them up like a cake. Best. Birthday. Cake. Ever.

We are in the midst of a pandemic people. There will be days that you just need some ice cream. When this happens, if you are in Atlanta or Decatur, turn to Butter & Cream.

Two locations:

Butter & Cream – Decatur
416 Church Street
Decatur, GA
(404) 378-7272

Butter & Cream – Beltline:
661 Auburn Ave, Suite 130
Atlanta, GA 30312
(404) 709-2173

 

Strawberry Ice Cream
Strawberry Ice Cream
Butter & Cream Decatur
Butter & Cream Decatur

Doggie ice cream
Pumpkin & Honey Pup Cup

Cakes at Butter & Cream
Cakes at Butter & Cream